She hates my family members with a passion

 

I don’t know why my wife hates every member of my family. We have been married for nine years now and blessed with a male child who is six years old. After the arrival of our son, her hatred for my people, most especially my mother, grew. For some strange reasons, she came to the conclusions that my mother is a bad woman who pretends a lot and is also a witch.

Since then, anything I say about my people ends up in misunderstanding between us. When I realised this, I stopped discussing issues concerning my family with her. She doesn't’t want me to have anything to do with them. When they call, she would instruct me to tell them she isn't’t around. Sometimes, I say it to satisfy her. She also thinks I lie about the amount of money I tell her I give to them.

I confess she has
been very supportive since I lost my job. But it is sad that since becoming the breadwinner, her behavior has changed. In all sincerity, it doesn't bother me except her nagging over issues that are best forgotten. As a person, I don’t brag over whatever God has used me to do for anybody because nothing can be accomplished without His power. Whenever I remind her of this important fact of life, she calms down. She is very aggressive; the reason I disallowed my daughter, I had before meeting her from staying with us. She hates them all with a passion. I always tell her to appreciate God for giving her a male child. My sex life is zero. At times, we make love only about five to six times in a year; not because I don’t want to, but because she keeps resisting any move I make towards being intimate with her. Though, I still love her, but not as before. She even told me her mother advised her to end the marriage because everywhere they went, my mother gets fingered as being behind all the problems confronting me. Thankfully, she declined the mother’s advice. I am the very quiet type; I don’t talk much and am very patient but, patience shouldn't be taken for granted.