
1. He knows your breakfast order by heart.
Whether it’s a toasted whole wheat
sesame bagel with scrambled eggs and cheese and freshly squeezed orange
juice or just black coffee. He’ll run out to pick it up or take you with
him and recite your order by heart.
He pays attention to the details of what you like.
2. He checks in on his way home.
With a quick text, “Leaving the bar
in 10 minutes. See you soon…” he lets you know that he hasn’t forgotten
you, and that he’s ready to be with his favorite person again.
He’s not sending this text because
he thinks you’re paranoid, needy or insecure. He sends it out of mutual
respect. He knows that giving you a head’s up prevents you from worrying
about his safety or
his level of sobriety. And it reminds you that he realizes the best part of his night has yet to begin.
his level of sobriety. And it reminds you that he realizes the best part of his night has yet to begin.
It’s also keeping you in the loop so you can cue up the movie you’ve been waiting to watch together.
3. He takes care of you.
He’ll grab you an Advil and a glass
of water if you have a headache. He’ll hit the pharmacy for some tissues
and cough meds and pick up chicken noodle soup when you have a bad head
cold. He’ll force you to take zinc lozenges and nudge you to see a
doctor when you claim to be too busy to make an appointment.
4. He calls during the day just to check in.
He may have a funny story to share
or he might simply want to see how work is going. He’ll often try to
convince you to shut down early so you can spend time together.
5. He’s great with kids.
In fact, you’re pretty sure he could
run a sports camp of some type. Kids flock to him and are eager to
spend time with him. He’s a great role model. His upbeat personality and
enthusiasm are infectious. There are huge grins on children’s little
faces when he’s around.
6. He makes time for you.
No matter how busy things get for
him, he’ll never forget to set aside consistent alone time with you.
You’re a priority to him, so he’s not afraid to turn down plans with
“the guys” in favor of some QT with his lady.
7. He’s responsive to each and every one of your calls and texts.
He’ll never go missing for multiple
days in a row. He’s reliable. He won’t stand you up when you have plans.
He doesn’t ask for rain checks because excuses are not part of his DNA.
He’s not one to be consistently late because he cares enough to be on
time.
8. He doesn’t keep in touch with ex-girlfriends.
He knows that once a relationship is
over, there is no good that can come from staying in close contact,
particularly once he’s in a new relationship. There are no strange phone
numbers popping up on his cell phone.
Not that you know this because you don’t even feel the need to cybersnoop.
9. He randomly buys you scratch lotto cards.
He loves handing you a coin and
watching you uncover the numbers on the card. You’ll plan together what
you’d do with the money if you should win. He’s a dreamer. And you love
dreaming with him.
10. On certain occasions, you receive heartfelt gifts accompanied by thoughtful greeting cards.
You’re into birthdays and
anniversaries, so he is happy to celebrate them with you. If he knows
you’re into writing, he’ll get you a beautiful journal.
He inserts his humor into presents,
too. For instance, if he sings you your favorite song, he’ll change the
words to lyrics so they’re about that annoying co-worker you’ve been
telling him about.
11. He’ll be a homebody when you’d rather be at home with his hot body.
Instead of getting dressed up and
spending a lot of money on a big night out, he’s ecstatic to stay in and
curl up on the couch with you to watch a movie and order takeout. His
back-to-back partying nights are behind him and he’s perfectly ok with
it.
12. He still screams like a 7-year-old boy when his favorite football team scores a touchdown.
He will be loyal to his team no
matter how many times they lose, how many quarterbacks they go through
in one season, or how far down the rankings they fall. This loyalty will
be passed down to his relationships with family, friends, and even his
future spouse. Once devoted, he’s in it for life.
13. He’s still regularly in touch with several of his childhood friends.
Each considers your guy his best
friend. He makes the time to call them back to find out what’s going on
with them and will find a way to connect with them despite living in
different cities and time zones.
14. He over-tips the wait staff at
restaurants on a regular basis and is exceptionally polite to service
industry workers in general.
You know that if he cares enough to
treat total strangers with respect that he’d do that times ten for you,
and everyone else he loves.
15. He’s mature.
He is not one to get swept up in the
crowd’s momentum without making his own decisions. If several of his
friends are doing whiskey shots until 4 AM, he’s the one making sure the
tab is paid and that everyone gets home safely.
16. He’s incredibly handsome without trying.
He’s low maintenance and dresses for
comfort. The more you’ve gotten to know him, the better looking he’s
become. He couldn’t care less what brand your jeans are or how high your
heels are. He finds you beautiful in everything.
17. He says at least one thing every day that makes you crack up.
It’s not always
intentional—sometimes, it’s just his outlook on things. Though he
definitely gets your sense of humor and loves to make you laugh.
18. He knows how to handle you when you’re in a bad mood.
Whether it’s letting you rant for
ten minutes straight while you go on about the incredibly selfish friend
you have or to force you to go for a walk. He knows better than to
start pressing b*ttons when you’re in this state and he’ll always take
your side, even if you’re wrong.
19. He’s secure enough to love your strengths.
He supports and encourages your
independence, which is what he loves about you. He respects your need to
keep up your own friendships but is happy to join you when invited.
20. He smells really good.
When you hug him, you just want to
keep on hugging him, just to breathe in his amazing scent that
encapsulates the unique impression he makes. You hope that whatever
you’re wearing will absorb just a little bit of his magic and hold on
tight to it, releasing traces of it sporadically throughout your day.
21. He’s your biggest fan.
When someone asks him about you, he
lights up and proudly describes someone that you’re excited to be. He
celebrates your successes because he’s someone who knows you inside and
out and can appreciate both your struggles and achievements.
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