Dear EEB When The Abuse Is Not Physical What Do I Do?

Dear EEB

I was going through your blog recently and I saw an article where you wrote about domestic violence/abuse.
My own case is a bit different and that is why am confused.


I have been married for 3 years now. My husband doesn't physical abuse me but his verbal pronouncements can kill somebody. He says words and doesn't care if it hurts me or not. Even when am emotional troubled by those words, he carry on as if he doesn't notice anything.
I remember some months back, we had an argument and i went to bed crying but do you know he came into the room saw me in that state instead of trying to calm me he still went ahead forced his way and made love to me.

There are so many instances that i can't mention. I am not a perfect being but
i thought i deserve a better treatment. It's only on TV i see where a man pets a woman i have never experienced it in my marriage.

I am beginning to nurse some ideas that may not be healthy for my marriage but i can't help it because the love i once had for him has decreased.
What do i do?
Please ma published my story.


My opinion
Was he like this during your courtship period? If no then find out where you both missed it. Secondly, go to God in prayer because HE alone can touch his heart, ( Pure truth ) 

Thirdly, find a conducive time and talk to him tell him how he is making you feel. I believe God for restoring your marital freedom and joy. 

Shalom

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